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RELATIONSHIP? The one key to long-term success

Relationships have their own share of troubles – no matter how trouble free a number of them look at the surface.

Le Raisonne

The reason for this I say is because of the dynamic nature of human behaviour.

At times, we want to enjoy life quietly. Other times we just want to go out and have fun hugging, laughing and screaming on the mountains.

The times of hunger

We all share a deep cravings for happy memories – consciously and unconsciously.

The burdens placed on us by society’s conducts on behaviour and associations, sometimes makes people in a relationship to miss the mark. When one person changes (in response to a particular situation or action), the other person who usually felt in control of the relationship panics – and in most cases, attempts to bring up counter-responses to return the other back to the past state.

Watch what you ask for

As more relationships fail because of unhealthy expectations, mal-adjustments and misunderstandings, think about who you’ve become . Is this who you always wanted to be in your relationship or has experience changed you?

And if you’re thinking if your partner is worth all the time and sacrifice, ask yourself whether you have been good to yourself first. Because, what you don’t have, you cannot give.

To sustain the bond that was once there in the beginning, friendship is the answer.

Friendship is the key to a successful long-term relationship.

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Loving can be easy – until your ice-cream meets the heat

THE BEGINNING

You feel the joy of having someone in your life. Someone to hold. Someone to share your joys and laughter with. Someone to speak your mind freely with. Someone to love.

THE NEXT PHASE

You come to discover certain things about that person that you didn’t know about. You come to see the lies and pretence about the person’s love for you.

MIXED BUTTER

You are faced with the choice of confronting that person about those questions on your mind?

The interesting part is the more you try to forget, the more you remember and question every detail of your past experiences together.

THE PROOF OF YOUR LOVE

Now that you’ve come to know all what you know, will you still keep that relationship?

A WORD FROM AGNES

In a post on her sanctuary, Agnes’ last line hits this:
“In the end, life (and love) is not black and white.”

YOUR LOVE RESOLUTION

Every relationship will be tested.

When the storms of hardship come, will your relationship stand?

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TRUE STRENGTH

Everyman lives to display his life based on a trend.
Just like a play, man’s life has a beginning and the end.

The Rich man showcases his wealth;
The Poor man showcases his poverty.
The Rich man enjoy luxury and Good Health;
The Poor man manages sickness and Hostility.

Man fights for different reasons;
His fights are in different ways.
Man desires his life to be full of fertile seasons;
His mindset places him where he stays.

Man is filled with Energy.
Man is filled with Strength.

He uses his energy to move.
He uses his strength to fight.

Every man must fight the Greatest War.
Every man must use his Greatest Strength.

Man’s Greatest War occurs within Him.
Man’s Greatest War Zone is his Mind.

Man’s Greatest Victory is Conquering Himself.
Man’s Greatest Trophy is Believing in Himself.

Man’s Positive Mindset is his Greatest Strength.
Man’s Faith, Hope and Love always merge to become his True Strength.

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Real Friendship: What you need to know to know your true friend

Everyday we try to make a difference in our lives. Everyday we want to be appreciated, loved and valued.
Still without a real, caring, concerned and loving friend, we cannot live life humanly – to our full potential.

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Friendship

This post tells you how to recognize that loyal, true friend.

First let’s start with the hard question.

DO YOU HAVE A TRUE FRIEND?

A lot of times, due to the pressures of life and other circumstantial happenings that gather people together, we are guilty of falling for the notion of ‘first sight’.

Just because you saw him that day, you think he’s that cool?

Just because you saw her smile, do you think she is all you will ever need to live on?

REAL FRIENDS ARE HARD TO FIND – but they are not all taken

If you think true friends have all been taken, think again – it’s just a myth.

There are still many joyful people out there looking for special people to connect with. Maybe you’ve just been searching in the wrong places.

LEARN FROM ACRES OF DIAMOND
The true friend you are seeking out there may already be in your life. All you just have to do is sit with a pen and piece of paper and write out the names of all the people who have been making attempts to come into your life – I mean those folks who want to get to know the beautiful and the ugly side of you and still accept you for who you are.

A word of caution: Not everyone who acts nice to you is that genuinely interested in you. There are still many hawks out there – they’re looking for preys – they pretend they’re into to you – when they don’t get what they’re after (and when they can no more see how to take from you), they pull out of your territory.

ON HOW TO MEASURE THE AUTHENTICITY OF YOUR FRIENDSHIP

Attention, Fun and Genuine Concern are the three variables to judge the realness of your friendship.

If you’re not still sure if that person is a true friend, provide the answers to the following questions.

Is that person genuinely interested in your friendship to help you grow out of your weaknesses?

  • Does that person encourage you to become the better version of yourself?
  • Does that person encourage you to reinforce your strength?
  • Does that person LOVE you for who your are and not what you offer?
  • Does that person celebrate life with your?
  • Does that person encourage you to go for your positive dreams?
  • Can that person risk the termination of the friendship by being honest with you concerning your mistake?
  • Does that person want to see you succeed in life?
  • Does that person encourage you to go for your dreams?
  • Do you really know that person’s weaknesses?
  • Do you understand why that person acts that particular way?
  • Does that person behave like a human and not a robot?
  • Do you feel your inner connection with this person?
  • What does your instinct tell you about this person?
  • Are you comfortable to be the real you whenever you are around this person?
  • Are you comfortable with letting down your guards [emotional towers] in the presence of this person?
  • When bad things happen to you, does that person give you a real shoulder to cry on?
  • Is that person also taking actions that build and sustain your joy and happiness in the friendship?
  • After knowing your struggles, fears and failures, will that person still love and respect you?
  • Can that person trust you with his or her life?
  • Can you forgive that person?
  • Can that person forgive you?

Remember, friendships are not designed for only you to get what you want when you want it. True friends disagree, argue, understand each other and can also take great risks to serve and save each other. So if you answered NO to any of the questions concerning that person, maybe, you need to think twice about this – IS THAT PERSON WORTH KEEPING ON YOUR FRIENDS LIST?

Please, learn and understand the meanings of the following words and phrases;
• Friend
• Acquaintance
• Associate
• Colleague
• Mentor
• One-sided friendship
• Mutual benefit
• Mutual respect

DID I MISS ANYTHING?
Tell us in the comments.

WE CAN STILL LEARN FROM YOU TOO
Use the comment section to share your experience about someone you thought was your friend?

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