Be Determined: Know what you want and go for it

Life’s too short for you to be the fake version of you.

Don’t forget your childhood dreams. Don’t let the circumstances of life push you off the path of joy and fulfilment. Listen to your heart. Live life to the full.

Hear Nora Roberts.

“If you don’t go after what you want, you’ll never have it. If you don’t ask, the answer is always no. If you don’t step forward, you’re always in the same place.” — Nora Roberts

To you, this may seem like a hard pill to swallow but this is a truth you have to keep in your heart.

There are different ways to go after what you want…

For some, it is prayer.

For others, it is imagination.

For others, it is taking action against your comfort zone.

OK!… let’s take a brief look at these three ways of getting what you want.


By connecting to the spiritual, many people magnet the invincible forces of light to come to their aid. The clause here is that any word of prayer must be done in faith for it to come to pass.


The mind is one of the most beautiful miracles that we humans have ever received. In your mind, you can see yourself sitting in your own yacht. You can have a handshake with the president of any country in the world. You can be with that person you love. There’s just no limits to what is possible when you tap into the power of your mind.


It is very easy to fall into the trap of wishful thinking. One of the primary movements of this notion is that when you lack an inner drive, you tend to slack in your chase.

Taking responsibility for your actions will help.

You have to come to the realization that your destiny depends on the kind of action you take today. It will help a lot in programming your mindset to go for what you want.

Finally, always remember that the first step to getting what you want is to know what you want. Take time off, relax and write down what you want and how you intend to go after it.

We’ll love to hear from you…

Have you ever wanted something funny in your relationship that you had ask for it? Have you ever had a strong feeling to become a friends with someone – to the point you had to approach that person?

It doesn’t matter whether it was a doll or dinner in a boat experience. You’ll do great sharing your experience with the Lovegeria community. We’ll love to learn what you wanted, how you went for it and the end result of your approach.

Cross off the negative feelings of the past. It’s OK to laugh off those thoughts and memories that deserve the laugh.

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